4/10/2002
Text: Genesis 32:21-32. "So went the present over before
him: and himself lodged that night in the company. 22 And he
rose up that night, and took his two wives, and his two
womenservants, and his eleven sons, and passed over the
ford Jabbok. 23 And he took them, and sent them over the
brook, and sent over that he had. 24 And Jacob was left
alone; and there wrestled a man with him until the breaking
of the day. 25 And when he saw that he prevailed not against
him, he touched the hollow of his thigh; and the hollow of
Jacob's thigh was out of joint, as he wrestled with him. 26
And he said, Let me go, for the day breaketh. And he said, I
will not let thee go, except thou bless me. 27 And he said unto
him, What is thy name? And he said, Jacob. 28 And he said,
Thy name shall be called no more Jacob, but Israel: for as a
prince hast thou power with God and with men, and hast
prevailed. 29 And Jacob asked him, and said, Tell me, I pray
thee, thy name. And he said, Wherefore is it that thou dost ask
after my name? And he blessed him there. 30 And Jacob
called the name of the place Peniel: for I have seen God face
to face, and my life is preserved. 31 And as he passed over
Penuel the sun rose upon him, and he halted upon his
thigh. 32 Therefore the children of Israel eat not of the sinew
which shrank, which is upon the hollow of the thigh, unto this
day: because he touched the hollow of Jacob's thigh in the
sinew that shrank."
Introduction: The world of professional wrestling has
always been bizarre with it's stunts and superstars. The
hype, glitz, and theatrics of wrestle mania, has created a
new market for kids as well as adults. There are millions
who watch such entertainment with passion, pulling for their
favorite wrestler and tag team. Professional wrestling has
become big money and in my opinion, a big waste of time.
This form of entertainment as most everything else in this
nation, has grown darker and more violent.
In our text, we have ringside seats to witness the
wrestling match of all time. This is no doubt the most
unusual wrestling match in history. This event takes place in
an open air arena beside the Jabbok River. In one corner
stands Jacob, affectionately known as "Big Jake" or "The
Schemer." And in the other corner, of all people is God
Himself. What a billing! JACOB VERSUS GOD! BIG JAKE
VERSUS JEHOVAH! Our text describes the blow by blow
account of Jacob's wrestling match with the omnipotent
God.
"How foolish," you say. "Who would want to take on God,
one on one, in a wrestling match? How could ‘Big Jake' ever
hope to win?" God has preserved this historical event in the
life of Jacob to teach us lessons concerning our own
struggles. You see, the truth is, all of us at some point in our
journey, have taken on God. We have all stepped into the
ring with God, and wrestled with Him about life. Right now as
we speak, someone could be struggling with God about
some situation, some problem, some difficulty, some
injustice, he or she has incurred! It would be good for us to
sit down in our ringside seats, and learn the lessons from
Jacob's wrestling match with God.
FIRST, WE OBSERVE THE ROAD TO JACOB'S
WRESTLING MATCH WITH GOD.
Jacob's encounter with
God began even before the day of his birth. The account
given in Genesis 25:19-26 tells us that Rebekah was disturbed
by the wrestling match going on in her belly as she carried
the turbulent twins, Jacob and Esau. There in the womb,
these two brothers who were destined to become two
nations, were duking it out for dominance! Later when they
came forth from the womb, Jacob grabbed Esau's heel as if
to pull him back in an effort to be the first born, a position of
prominence in the Hebrew family. His parents observing this
unusual trait named him, "Jacob." You see in the ancient
Hebrew culture, a person's name carried with it the very
essence and identity of the person. No Hebrew parent
chose a name for their baby just because it sounded nice, or
was popular, but only because the name fit the child! The
name "Jacob" means "supplanter, schemer, cheater; one who
grabs from behind."
Jacob was "called for clipping." Such a person takes
things in his own hands, wrestles to get his own way, and the
remainder of Jacob's life up to this main event reveals that
Jacob was named properly. He wrestled with his brother
Essau to get his birthright, he and his mother formed a tag
team as they wrestled with his father to obtain the blessing of
the firstborn, he wrestled with his uncle Laban (however
uncle Laban gave him a run for his money) over flocks, herds,
his daughters, and now he WRESTLES WITH GOD! Jacob is
WRESTLING WITH GOD, because he has for a long time
been wrestling with life. Everything that had happened,
everything that was happening in his life, had been leading to
this one critical, crucial encounter. By name and by nature
Jacob has for a long time walked the road of his own
choosing, the road of self will, selfish goals, the road of his
own strength and resources. Now that road leads past the
Jabbok River, a name which means "wrestling."
In our text, Jacob places his wives, servants, and
company, over across the Jabbok river to the south side, and
he estranges himself on the north bank. Completely alone
with his doubts, dreams, and fears, Jacob was set for his
encounter with God. Now would begin his long night of
struggle, and in the agony of his soul, Jacob would wrestle in
prayer, and actually, literally, wrestle the pre-incarnate
Christ. By mornings light, Jacob would leave a different man
with a new name, seeking a new destiny, walking a new road!
SECOND, WE MUST OBSERVE THE REASONS FOR
JACOB'S WRESTLING MATCH WITH GOD.
What was it that
so troubled Jacob? What has brought him to this spiritual
crisis in his life as he sits alone at the river gorge? What are
the REASONS for his wrestling?
One obvious reason is his name and nature. Jacob
was growing weary of his wrestling, his struggle with life.
Sure, he had some previous encounters with God. The
Lord's blessings had been upon his life despite Jacob's
insistence on singing, "I'll do it my way!" The truth remained
that he had done it his way, and now it was a royal mess!
Jacob at the river gorge is a tired, weary, frightened,
searching man, a man who is slow to trust God and quick
to grab from behind. His name and nature has woven a web
of trouble and conflict. What does Jacob have to show for
all of his scheming?
He has family problems. Jacob had left home with a
father who no doubt was disappointed in him and a brother
who swore to kill him. He wasn't exactly popular with his
uncle Laban and the in-laws. Now he had two wives who
were continually fighting. His family life was a wreck!
Sounds much like today, doesn't it? Families
everywhere are fighting and falling apart because they have
forsaken God, His house, His Word! Like Jacob, many
fathers and husbands turned away from God to follow the
god of mammon. A home built upon this world with its
philosophy and mind set is like building a house upon the
sand. It will stand for a while, but when the wind and waves
of trouble come and beat upon it, great is its fall!
He was struggling with his destiny, his purpose. He
was supposed to be heir to the promise of God first given to
his grandfather Abraham and passed down to his father Isaac.
At Bethel that promise was reiterated by God to Jacob and
Jacob made a vow to God. We remember that vow recorded
in Genesis 28:20-21. "And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If or
since God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I
go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on, So that
I come again to my father's house in peace; then shall the Lord
be my God." Without doubt, Jacob struggled with the timing
of God's plan for his life as well as the direction his life had
taken. His patience had run thin and perhaps he was
perplexed as to where his life was going.
One thing was for sure, the Lord had kept His end of the
bargain. Jacob was a blessed man. He came to Laban's
house empty, and now he was leaving full. Jacob was on his
way to becoming the person who could fit that promise made
by God, however Jacob still had the same nature and name.
He was not entirely the Jacob who left home twenty years
earlier, but he had not yet come to the end of his ways.
There were some things in his life he had not set aside. We
see this as he prepares to meet Esau. Instead of trusting
God, he is referring to Esau as his master and himself as his
servant, which is upside down! Instead of trusting God, he
is sending wave after wave of presents to Esau in an effort
to appease him. Now his life is as uncertain as ever. He is a
man without a country. Jacob was rich in the things of this
world, but he was not yet rich toward God.
Today the average American has more than ever
before, and yet a sense of hopelessness and despair has
never filled the country as it fills it today. We have raised a
whole generation without God, values or absolutes, and now
we are both seeing and hearing the emptiness within. Most
kids have things, but no reason to live. When we walk away
from God, we walk away from our purpose for existence!
Nothing can fill the heart like Jesus.
He is certainly troubled about his future. Soon, the
next morning Jacob is to meet up with his profane brother
Essau. "BIG JAKE" for sure is no match for big, red headed,
hairy, hot-tempered, rough, rugged he-man Essau. "BIG JAKE
VERSUS BIG RED." The mother's boy who hid out in the
tents and loved to cook would be no contest for Essau. The
future struck fear into the heart of Jacob. He needed some
answers, some assurance as he faced the future and now he
sits alone. Alone is a tough place to be when you need help,
answers, and assurance. Alone is tough when you are at
the top, but on the bottom it is unbearable! But Jacob is
alone by his own design. He wanted it "his way" and now that
is exactly what he has. There at the river ford, Jacob keeps
his solitary, restless watch. Sleep was impossible. His
troubled spirit would not let him rest. Jacob is at a crisis in
life. Jacob is at a cross road.
THIRD, WE OBSERVE THE RESULTS OF JACOB'S
WRESTLING MATCH WITH GOD.
Now the main event. It
could be that Jacob began to pray that night. In the agony of
his soul, he cried out to God. He began perhaps for the first
time in his life, to earnestly wrestle in prayer. It was as
though he sensed that God was really present with him.
God's presence and purpose became more and more real
to him until, suddenly, He was real! His uplifted arms were
actually clinging to God, Himself! There God was, ...flesh to
flesh, ...bone to bone, ...in human form!
Jacob in his desperation realized the precious
opportunity before him. If he let go, then God would leave
with his needs unmet, his prayers unanswered! So, Jacob
WRESTLED WITH GOD, back and forth, a head lock here,
an arm hold there, the struggle perhaps went on for hours.
God in His grace and mercy allowed Jacob to wrestle, ...to
work out his fleshly nature and anxiety, ...for in his struggle,
...in his wrestling, his faith and understanding was growing!
The turning point came when God touched Jacob in the
hollow of his thigh dislocating the ball-and-socket joint of
his thigh. Suddenly he was weakened and immobilized.
Jacob yelled out in pain, "Ahhhhh," as he stopped wrestling
and started clinging!
There is a difference between wrestling and clinging.
To "wrestle" is to contend and fight for dominance. However,
to "cling" is to hold on to, to grasp in desperation. The pre-
incarnate Christ knew that morning light was breaking, and
instructed Jacob to let him go. Jacob responded in verse 26,
"I will not let thee go, except Thou bless me." He was
persistent in his prayer; persistent in his plea; serious in his
request from God, even though his body was racked with
pain. I believe God knew the change which had transpired in
Jacob's heart. Jacob was now holding on in faith, rather
than wrestling in fear. God was moved by the persistence
of Jacob.
It is the same for us! We are to "wrestle" in prayer. In
Colossians 4:12, Paul writes, "Epaphras, who is one of you, a
servant of Christ, saluteth you, always labouring fervently for
you in prayers, that ye may stand perfect and complete in all
the will of God." The word "labouring" in the Greek is
agonizomai (ag-o-nid'-zom-ahee) and it means to contend in
the gymnastic games, to contend with adversaries, to fight
and struggle so to obtain. The Lord desires our prayers to be
fervent and persistent. Jesus said, "Ask, and it shall be
given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be
opened unto you. For every one that asketh receiveth; and
he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be
opened."
God blessed Jacob, not because He had to or was
forced to, but because Jacob was ready to receive the
blessing. What a blessing! "What is your name?" God
asked. What He was really asking Jacob was, "Who are
you?" As Jacob hung on to Him in pain, he answered, "I'm
Jacob, the schemer, the one who grabs from behind, the
scared mama's boy, the con-man, the self-centered, self-
serving, self-sufficient one!" Then God said, "Thy name shall
be called no more Jacob, but Israel: for as a prince hast thou
power with God and with men, and hast prevailed." God
was saying, "This is who you were, from now on you are the
one who prevails with God, not wrestles without Him!"
God's blessing to Jacob was a new name, a new
nature. His name was not just a new label on the jar, but a
whole new shape to the jar itself! From now on God would
help Jacob fight and conquer the baser elements in his
character. The old tendencies no doubt would assert
themselves again, but with God's help they would never
dominate his life! God had touched Jacob to the bone, to the
nerve, yea to the innermost part of his heart.
As Jacob released God, he walked with a limp, a
weaker man, yet stronger. And we hear the words of Paul in
II Corinthians 12:9, "for my strength is made perfect in
weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my
infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me." He
went on to say, "for when I am weak, then am I strong."
FOURTH, WE MUST OBSERVE THE REALITY OF
OUR OWN WRESTLING MATCH WITH GOD.
You see, the
struggle of Jacob is our own. We all have the name and
nature of Jacob. We all have the tendency to wrestle with
life, to take things in our own hands, to set our own agenda,
and work things out in our own strength. The result? The
result is much the same, we make a mess of things which
drives us to the river gorge, the banks of our own Jabbok.
Family problems, financial problems, relational problems, no
purpose, no sense of destiny, fear about the future, all drive us
to the end of ourselves and hopefully into the arms of a God
who has revealed Himself in the person of a loving, caring
Savior, Jesus Christ. But we must stop wrestling and start
clinging! We must surrender our lives, our wills, our dreams
and schemes, to the Lordship of Jesus Christ and let Him
change us. In Jesus Christ, we can have a new name, a new
nature, a new destiny, and a secure future.
Right now, you may see yourself in Jacob. You are in
the night of your struggle, feeling all alone, scared, and
afraid. Are you tired of wrestling? Are you at the end of
yourself? Are you ready to acknowledge your weakness,
the futility of grabbing from behind? Can you see that when
you wrestle with life you are indeed wrestling with God?
Perhaps this is the day, bruised, tired, and lame, you will
surrender your heart and life to Jesus Christ.