5/15/2002
Text: Genesis 32:28-31. "And He said, Thy name shall be
called no more Jacob, but Israel: for as a prince hast thou
power with God and with men, and hast prevailed. 29 And
Jacob asked Him, and said, Tell me, I pray thee, Thy name.
And He said, Wherefore is it that thou dost ask after my name?
And He blessed him there. 30 And Jacob called the name of
the place Peniel: for I have seen God face to face, and my life
is preserved.31 And as he passed over Penuel the sun rose
upon him, and he halted upon his thigh."
Introduction: As we begin this message on the life of
Jacob, we do so by retracing our steps back to that life
changing moment on the bank of the Jabbock river. The
Lord blessed Jacob there by changing his name from Jacob
to Israel. Indeed, it was a blessing because that name
change meant that God had plans for Jacob. The covenant
promise first given to his grandfather Abraham, would flow
through him and his offspring!
The blessing was great, but did you notice that Jacob
walks away with a limp? It says in verse 31b, that Jacob
"halted upon his thigh." The word "halted" in the Hebrew is
tsala' (tsaw-lah') which means to limp or to be lame. His
encounter with God came at a price. Jacob left with his
blessing, he experienced something no one else had
experienced, but he walked away with a limp. Most believe
that Jacob "halted upon his thigh" the remainder of his life as
a testimony to his encounter with God.
Here we are reminded that the road to blessing is the
road of brokenness. Jacob begins his life full of himself, full
of assurance that he would be successful in his time, his
way, and by his own hand, but he ends his life with a limp.
In Genesis 47 at the end of his life, Jacob stands before
Pharaoh a broken man. When Pharaoh asks him how old he
is, Jacob responds in verse 9, "The days of the years of my
pilgrimage are an hundred and thirty years: few and evil have
the days of the years of my life been, and have not attained
unto the days of the years of the life of my fathers in the days
of their pilgrimage." Jacob's testimony is that of a blessed, but
broken man. Job, a man who was also broken by God, gave
a similar testimony of his life. He says in Job 14:1, "Man that
is born of a woman is of few days, and full of trouble."
I can remember when I first surrendered to preach and
to pastor. Attending preacher's conferences, I would hear
the older, seasoned, pastors, stand and deliver messages
about the hardships of the ministry. They would preach
about the betrayal, the disappointment, the
discouragements, the heartache, that comes to a faithful
pastor. It was nothing I wanted to hear, just entering the
ministry myself. Hearing that, I would go into denial and say
to myself, "It doesn't have to be like that. Surely, they are
doing some things all wrong. Mine will be a ministry minus all
of that. If I remain faithful to the Word, preach hard, work
hard, I will never develop a limp." Years have passed, and I
have discovered that the road to blessing is the road of
brokenness.
It is the same with parenting. Raising children is a
humbling experience. At the first we have all the answers.
Untested and untried as parents, we say things like, "My
children will never rebel. They will always behave and be
respectful. I will be a consistent, loving, but firm parent to
my children." Soon we learn that all parents make mistakes
and the best of homes can produce rebels! If we raise godly
children, it is by the grace of God!
Jacob has returned home. He is back in Bethel, but he
is not home free. He is walking in the right direction, he is
on the right road, but there are bumps in that road, there are
bumps designed and placed in his path by God, which lead
to brokeness.
FIRST, WE ASK THE QUESTION, "HOW WAS JACOB
BROKEN? JUST WHAT WAS IT THAT CAUSED HIS LIMP?"
Obviously Jacob is limping because he was touched by God.
However, we must realize that God touches us through life
itself. We live in a broken world, a world that is under the
curse and condemnation of sin. Our bodies are under the
same curse. God has a redemptive purpose and plan for us,
for these bodies, as well as for all creation, yet it is equally
true that God uses this world with all of it's trials and troubles
to brake us, shape us, into vessels He can use and get glory.
So, "How was Jacob broken?"
First, we observe that Jacob was broken by life's hard
losses. Losing someone or something is a humbling
experience. The loss of loved ones, facing the grave has it's
lessons. It teaches us and or reminds us how frail we are
and how fragile life can be. It teaches us how dependant we
are upon others. It teaches us that life is short! We do not
have always to serve the Lord!
As Jacob returns to Bethel, he faces the loss of loved
ones.
In Genesis 35:8, Deborah Rebekah's nurse died. "But
Deborah Rebekah's nurse died, and she was buried beneath
Bethel under an oak: and the name of it was called
Allonbachuth (al-lone' baw-kooth')." It is interesting that
Rebekah's death is not mentioned in Scripture, only the
place of her burial is mentioned in Genesis 49:31. As a matter
of fact, after she counsels Jacob in Genesis 27, there is not
another mention of Jacob's mother. Yet here there is great
sorrow at the passing of her nurse. It seems strange that
such a seemingly insignificant person such as a nurse,
should be mentioned, when the person she brought up, is
passed by unnoticed!
The name "Allonbachuth" (al-lone' baw-
kooth') means oak of tears, or oak of weeping. The nurse in
an Eastern family was considered a very important person,
someone held in high esteem. In Syria a nurse is regarded
more like is a second parent. She always accompanies the
bride to her husband's house, and ever after remains there
an honored member of the family.
It is probable, that Deborah came to join Jacob and his
family after the death of his mother. This was the woman
who helped raise him and proved a blessing to his own
family. If Deborah was fifty years old when she came to
Canaan with Rebekah, she had lived to the great age of a
hundred and eighty. Old nurses, like her, were, not only
honored, but loved as mothers. Without doubt, her death
moved Jacob to tears.
In Genesis 35:16-20, Jacob is faced with his beloved
Rachel's death. Rachel was with child. Evidently she had
some complications delivering her child. It says, "And they
journeyed from Bethel; and there was but a little way to come
to Ephrath: and Rachel travailed, and she had hard labour. 17
And it came to pass, when she was in hard labour, that the
midwife said unto her, Fear not; thou shalt have this son
also. 18 And it came to pass, as her soul was in departing, (for
she died) that she called his name Benoni: but his father
called him Benjamin. 19 And Rachel died, and was buried in
the way to Ephrath, which is Bethlehem. 20 And Jacob set a
pillar upon her grave: that is the pillar of Rachel's grave unto
this day." What a tragedy! Knowing she was going to die
giving birth, Rachel named her son, "Benoni" (ben-o-nee')
which means son of my sorrow. Jacob changed his name to
"Benjamin" (bin-yaw-mene') which means son of the right
hand. Think about it. Jacob has lost his mother Rehekah,
Deborah, a childhood figure in his life, and now he suffers
the loss of his true love, his beloved Rachel.
In Genesis 35:27-29, Jacob faces the loss of his father
Isaac. "And Jacob came unto Isaac his father unto Mamre,
unto the city of Arbah, which is Hebron, where Abraham and
Isaac sojourned. 28 And the days of Isaac were an hundred
and fourscore years. 29 And Isaac gave up the ghost, and
died, and was gathered unto his people, being old and full of
days: and his sons Esau and Jacob buried him." Jacob and
Esau stand together at the grave of their father and as they
do, they are very different men. Life has changed them.
They are no longer fighting for dominance. They have
nothing to prove. Things that were once so important, are
no longer important.
Second, we observe that Jacob was broken by life's
tough lessons. Jacob suffered as much in his own
household, as he suffered in the household of Laban. He
has been broken by his own children. The psalmist in Psalm
127 pictures children as arrows in the hand of a mighty man.
Those arrows are intended to be pointed at the enemy for a
parent's defense and protection, yet many times they are
pointed at the parent and inflict sorrow and pain. In war it is
known as "friendly fire." Jacob's sons were a constant source
of trouble and could not be trusted. We know about the
massacre of Shechem. Their actions brought fear to
Jacob's life.
In Genesis 37, Jacob sends the favored Joseph out to
see what his brothers are up to. Finally he finds them and
they end up casting Joseph into a pit, and selling him to
some slave traders. These sons then took Joseph's coat,
ripped it up, covered it in goat's blood, and used it as
evidence to back up a fabricated story, telling Jacob that his
son had been ripped to shreds and eaten by some wild
beast. How cruel and heartless! This of course broke the
heart and spirit of Jacob.
Notice Genesis 37:34-35. "And
Jacob rent his clothes, and put sackcloth upon his loins,
and mourned for his son many days. 35 And all his sons and
all his daughters rose up to comfort him; but he refused to
be comforted; and he said, For I will go down into the grave
unto my son mourning. Thus his father wept for him."
Joseph is not dead, but Jacob grieves and suffers as if he
were. Little did he know that all this pain, grief, and suffering
was caused by the hatred, anger, and jealously of his sons.
Listen, so often in life we reap what we sow. We live in
the homes of our own design. Some of this is good, and
some of this is not so good! Life is a classroom! It teaches
us some very hard lessons.
Third, we observe that Jacob is broken by life's
difficult twists and turns. At the end of Genesis 41, we learn
that the great famine prophesied through Pharaoh's dream
had reached Canaan. Verse 57 reads, "And all countries
came into Egypt to Joseph for to buy corn; because that the
famine was so sore in all lands." Jacob is now faced with a
great famine. Of course we know that God was in this
famine, however to Jacob it was just one more hardship he
must face. In Genesis 42:1-2 we read, "Now when Jacob saw
that there was corn in Egypt, Jacob said unto his sons, Why
do ye look one upon another?2 And he said, Behold, I have
heard that there is corn in Egypt: get you down thither, and
buy for us from thence; that we may live, and not die."
Christians, believers in Jesus Christ, are not spared the
difficulties of this life. We suffer economic downturns,
floods, earthquakes, tornados and the like. The Lord causes
the sun to shine and the rain to fall on the just and unjust
alike. Just living in this sin cursed, evil world has a way of
wearing us down.
SECOND, WE ASK THE QUESTION, "WHY DOES
GOD BREAK US? WHY DOES HE DESIRE HIS SERVANTS
TO LIMP? WHAT IS HIS PURPOSE?" We must come to
realize that God insist on being the Potter and that we be the
clay. The trouble was that even from birth, Jacob wanted to
be the potter of his life. He wanted to be the one who was in
control! The Lord had to break Jacob in order to shape him,
mold him, so that He could use him to accomplish His own
purpose! Notice Romans 9:20-21. "Nay but, O man, who art
thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to
Him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? 21 Hath not
the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make
one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour?"
Jacob, the one who wrestled with God, had to be broken by
God so that he could become Israel, one who prevailed with
God! It is through his brokenness that Jacob becomes Israel!
As Jacob limps on through life, we can see Israel still alive,
still being formed in Jacob.
The spirit of Israel prevails in Jacob as he learns his
son Joseph is alive! Notice Genesis 45:26-28. "And told him,
saying, Joseph is yet alive, and he is governor over all the
land of Egypt. And Jacob's heart fainted, for he believed
them not.27 And they told him all the words of Joseph, which
he had said unto them: and when he saw the wagons which
Joseph had sent to carry him, the spirit of Jacob their father
revived:28 And Israel said, It is enough; Joseph my son is
yet alive: I will go and see him before I die." The coals of
hope are still alive and burning among the ashes of Jacob's
life.
The spirit of Israel is at peace in Jacob as he meets his
son Joseph in Egypt. In Genesis 46:29-30 we read, "And
Joseph made ready his chariot, and went up to meet Israel his
father, to Goshen, and presented himself unto him; and he fell
on his neck, and wept on his neck a good while.30 And Israel
said unto Joseph, Now let me die, since I have seen thy face,
because thou art yet alive." Israel discovers that with God,
he can have peace in the midst of the storm, provision in the
midst of famine.
The spirit of Israel by faith claims the promise as
Jacob faces his own death. Genesis 47:29-31. "And the time
drew nigh that Israel must die: and he called his son Joseph,
and said unto him, If now I have found grace in thy sight, put,
I pray thee, thy hand under my thigh, and deal kindly and truly
with me; bury me not, I pray thee, in Egypt: 30 But I will lie
with my fathers, and thou shalt carry me out of Egypt, and
bury me in their buryingplace. And he said, I will do as thou
hast said. 31 And he said, Swear unto me. And he sware unto
him. And Israel bowed himself upon the bed's head." Israel
will not be left behind in Egypt! Israel will not be buried in
Egypt! His faith still clings to the Promised Land!
The spirit of Israel prophesies as Jacob blesses
Joseph's two sons. Joseph brings his two sons, Manasseh
the first born and Ephraim the second born, and places them
before Jacob so that he will bless them accordingly. Jacob
is blind, so Joseph makes it easy for his father. However, as
Israel blessed his children, he pulls a switch on Joseph.
Genesis 48:17-19 reads, "And when Joseph saw that his
father laid his right hand upon the head of Ephraim, it
displeased him: and he held up his father's hand, to remove
it from Ephraim's head unto Manasseh's head. 18 And
Joseph said unto his father, Not so, my father: for this is the
firstborn; put thy right hand upon his head. 19 And his father
refused, and said, I know it, my son, I know it: he also shall
become a people, and he also shall be great: but truly his
younger brother shall be greater than he, and his seed shall
become a multitude of nations." Jacob was in control,
moving at the impulse of his own will and desires. Israel is
out of control, moving at the impulse of God!
Now we can see just why God the Potter has to brake
us. Paul said it this way, II Corinthians 12:9-10, "My grace is
sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in
weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my
infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 10
Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in
necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake:
for when I am weak, then am I strong."
THIRD, WE ASK THE QUESTION, "HOW CAN WE
SURVIVE GOD'S BREAKING PROCESS IN OUR OWN LIVES?
HOW CAN WE BECOME BROKEN, BUT NOT
DESTROYED?" The truth we must learn here is that God's
breaking process is never intended to destroy us, though in
the midst of it, we might feel as if we are going to be
destroyed. The Lord wants us to limp in dependance upon
Him, not to lie down in denial. Job came to the point in his
life that he actually cursed the day he was born.
The apostle Paul must have felt the same way. Listen
to his testimony in II Corinthians 4:7. "But we have this
treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power
may be of God, and not of us." Here we see again just why
the Lord desires to use broken vessels. When we are
broken, we realize who we are, that we are nothing but clay
pots, that the power comes from God, and the glory goes to
God. Paul continues in verse 8, "We are troubled on every
side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in
despair;9 Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not
destroyed."
So, how do we survive God's breaking process? Here
are three observations:
Observation One: If we are going to survive God's
breaking process in our lives, we must learn to check our
perspective. Notice Jacob's perspective in Genesis 42:36.
"And Jacob their father said unto them, Me have ye bereaved
of my children: Joseph is not, and Simeon is not, and ye will
take Benjamin away: all these things are against me." Isn't
this the natural perception. Jacob saw the negative things
that had happened in his life as counter productive, however
they were not! Little did he know that God was using all
those things for Jacob's good and His glory! In reality, all
those negative things were for him, not against him!
Listen, if we are "in Christ," all these things are for us.
All these things serve us! We must keep the proper
perspective.
Observation Two: If we are going to survive God's
breaking process in our lives, we must learn to trust in God's
purpose. There is nothing that comes to us that does not
first come by God. Nothing comes to us but by the will of
God, and as it does is assigned a great purpose. Every
calamity has a purpose. This would be Joseph's great
conclusion in Genesis 50:19-20. "And Joseph said unto them,
Fear not: for am I in the place of God?20 But as for you, ye
thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to
bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive."
Observation Three: If we are going to survive God's
breaking process in our lives, we must learn to claim God's
promise. God has promised never to leave or forsake us.
Notice Genesis 48:15-16. "And he blessed Joseph, and said,
God, before whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac did walk, the
God which fed me all my life long unto this day,16 The Angel
which redeemed me from all evil, bless the lads; and let my
name be named on them, and the name of my fathers Abraham
and Isaac; and let them grow into a multitude in the midst of the
earth." Who is the "Angel" in verse 16? The hand of the God
the Shepherd was present in Jacob's life. The eye of the
Shepherd never once failed to take note of him. The love of
God his Shepherd, never failed.
We must remember that we have a Great, Good
Shepherd in our lives, the Lord Jesus Christ. I Peter 2:25
reads, "For ye were as sheep going astray; but are now
returned unto the Shepherd and Bishop of your souls."